Hornet3d
Wise
Yeah. That was like 25 years ago, so it's water under the bridge ... sorta. Ex had a way of bringing up all my "transgressions," like I abandoned our 17 year old son when I left Oregon. We had joint custody, and had agreed my ex would move into the house with our son until his marriage, at which point Jason would move in with his father and the new wife. Unfortunately, I had a bad habit of engaging ... and would generally then bring up the car loans ... and that he had promised to repay me.
Anyhow ... as of 2006, I no longer have any interactions with either. Their decision.
Since the loans had been consolidated, I'm not sure whether anything would come of contesting it. It was "only" $1,000, and the credit union had lost $10,000 with the unsecured part of the debt, so I can understand why they transferred the remaining debt to me. Then again, since he'd promised to repay me, well ... silly me.
Fortunately, the last purchase I made at Renderosity was in February. And for that order, I used PayPal. I think I'll continue to do so. Even though, I don't really like using PayPal either.
Sorry to hear about the difficult past, I think it is always a shame when a relationship breaks down but it sometimes the best in the long run. Glad you manage to get out from underneath, even if it was a struggle.
I think the mantra at Rendo is certainly a case of buyer beware. While I don't like Paypal personally, from the reports of others, it looks a lot safer than a credit card, particularly at Rendo.