What a lovely kitty Dreamer.
That she is Janet. Even though the vets are all good, each visit increases her fear. Her initial visit went well, until the vet tried to take her temperature. The next visit, she was a bit skittish. And of course, she had to have shots.
Then I had to take her to the vet several times because she apparently has some kind of allergy and would over groom an area until it got infected. That meant antibiotic shots. So now she associates the vet with getting stabbed.
I know now to check her regularly for bald spots and put her into a collar when I find a bald spot. I also have a spray from the vet that is supposed to calm the itching. So, we haven't needed to go in for antibiotic shots. But cats have a terrific memory of situations where they are hurt, which explains why each visit has increased her fear.
But oh my gosh. Talk about drama queen! As soon as I put the collar on, she acts totally broken. She slinks along the floor with her belly practically dragging on the floor. She walks normally when she forgets about the collar, until something reminds her that she's wearing the collar, then it's broken kitty again. She also can't deal with not being able to groom herself, and she demands I scratch under collar while she grooms the collar.
She's also discovered that sometimes she's able to slip out of the collar as the top Velcro strip doesn't hold anymore, and she can unpeel the second Velcro strip.