To be more accurate, I was told by a woman friend that my characters are "modern archetypes" due to popular culture, and therefore they are now stereotypes. (This declaration was made with no regard or understanding of the backstory of any of these characters, so in reality it doesn't hold much water.)
So for example... because of Carrie Fisher as Princess/General Leia, and because of the character of Vaquez in Aliens, and Linda Hamilton as Sarah Connor in Terminator 2, and Sarah Michelle Gellar as Buffy, and Michelle Rodriguez as a badass woman in... well, pretty much every movie she's been in... that my woman characters who are pilots, or a soldiers, or adventuring elfs, or androids (???), or ballet-teaching ninja assassin spacefaring portrait-painting divorced lesbian UPS delivery specialists (okay I just made that one up) are now stereotypes of The Strong Independent Woman and are therefore now somehow burdensome in some way.
So for example... because of Carrie Fisher as Princess/General Leia, and because of the character of Vaquez in Aliens, and Linda Hamilton as Sarah Connor in Terminator 2, and Sarah Michelle Gellar as Buffy, and Michelle Rodriguez as a badass woman in... well, pretty much every movie she's been in... that my woman characters who are pilots, or a soldiers, or adventuring elfs, or androids (???), or ballet-teaching ninja assassin spacefaring portrait-painting divorced lesbian UPS delivery specialists (okay I just made that one up) are now stereotypes of The Strong Independent Woman and are therefore now somehow burdensome in some way.