Are you sure we weren't separated at birth?!
That's my philosophy too. People do and feel better in their own space, surrounded by their own bits and bobs. I am really lucky my son is so determined to support me. I have seen so many whose families didn't and it breaks my heart.
I doubt it. I think I was just born in the wrong country!
In all seriousness, though. I've worked in nursing homes, and I've done home care where I traveled to people's homes to help them there. I've done my time as an EMT. I love working with elders, though my time with the ambulance corps was, I have to say, my favorite. I love,
love triage.
All that to say, I've seen the whole gamut of it, and I am actually proud of the fact that we were able to keep Chuck in his home. He never had to step foot in a nursing home. When he got to where he needed 24-hour care, that's when I left the workforce. By then my Bear was earning more on his own than we ever did combined in the past, so we were able to afford for me to stop working. And between myself and my daughter, we managed it.
I just don't believe in ripping people out of their homes unless there is literally nothing else that can be done.
My grandmother loved to swim, but could not get in and out of the pool very well. My mother couldn't afford to put in the rails on the steps down (she had an in-ground pool). Well, that just meant that two of us got in on either side of the steps and stood still. We did not do
anything at all, except stand there, and
she at 97 years old, would use our heads, shoulders, and arms as railings to get in and then back out of the pool when she felt like it. LOL And oh believe me, if she thought you were trying to reach to
help her, you'd get a quick-fire Irish
whack on the top of your head so fast you didn't know what hit you!
...and you wonder where I get my spunk from?
Hi Pen
I'm pretty stoked with my gate too!
Hey my peeps, has anyone seen my marbles? Cos I seem to have lost them. That surely is the only reason (besides gluttony) why I would make a curry on a hot, humid night and now be perspiring like a farm labourer. (Apropos of perspiration, have you ever heard this little maxim: horses sweat, men perspire and ladies gently glow. My grandma's instant comeback if you were silly enough to say you were sweating!) So is anyone has found my marbles can you please return them to me c/- Sans Souci, Opua.
I don't know
what marbles you might be talking about... puppies don't play with marbles, nuh-uh, nope nope...
Afternoon all...
My cat gets moist and dry in separate sections...mainly gets the dry stuff to help protect the teeth.
Love the new gate in your handrail Lorraine...
Hi, Pen! Afternoon. ^_^ Hope your day is going well. That gate is a really sweet job, isn't it?